With the help of some beautiful faces from our DSDN January – June 2020 Birth Group we created this video for Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

I just loved seeing all these smiling faces together! I shed alot of tears putting this video together. Just knowing all the obsticles many of these children have overcome or are in the midst of conquering brought so many tears. These children continue to spread joy and light and are such an inspiration to all!

A special thank you to Marina Roman and Rebecca Rollo for you help with this project.

We feel it is important to remember out friends who have gone on to heaven. They are family and they are never forgotten.

Mila Piper Wren Layron
01/01/2020 – 05/29/2020

Mila Grace Quinn
01/24/2020 – 05/21/2020

Warner Lawson Albertsen
02/11/2020 – 10/04/21

Theodore Gene Huls
04/03/2020 – 01/11/2021

Maxine Ruby Helgerson
04/14/2020 – 10/30/2020

Elijah D’Anthony Brown
04/18/2020 – 08/25/2020

Ellie Jane Mitrovich
04/22/2020 – 06/26/2020

Everett August Herb
04/25/2020

Piper Joy Stanton
04/25/2020 – 05/02/2020

McKenna Kim Bennett
06/11/2020 – 08/30/2020

Kendrick Bello Porter
06/21/2020 -09/21/2020

The day Olivia Joy was born was one of the most incredible days of my life. She came swiftly and serenely in the stillness of the early morning. The moment I laid eyes on her, I knew in my heart that she was remarkably unique. As she peacefully rested on my chest, I was overwhelmed with unconditional love and gratitude.

Mere moments later, she was whisked across the room for evaluation. I intently watched every move of the medical staff. Their hushed whispers and the notable concern written on each of their faces were simultaneously puzzling and intriguing.

Shortly after the murmuring ended, our doctor came over and told us that Olivia had several of the physical markers for Down syndrome. The moment those words left her lips, a smile spread across mine. The presence of the Lord felt tangible at that moment. I had undoubtedly just witnessed and participated in a miracle. Olivia was the fulfillment of a desire the Lord had given me a decade prior.  She is a living, breathing testimony of the Lord’s goodness.

I have spent the last year and a half falling in love with Olivia every single day. It turns out that her extra chromosome makes her extra sweet, extra affectionate, and extra special. Her “extraness” is a good gift from the Lord that our family does not deserve. We celebrate His intentionality in making her EXACTLY how she is supposed to be. To wish away the diagnosis of Down syndrome is to wish away Olivia as we know her.

One of the things I pray for often is that Olivia will know that she is worthy. She is an equal daughter of the King. She is a treasure made in the image of God. Her worthiness is not contingent on the ability of others to see or acknowledge it. Man cannot take what God has given.

Down syndrome is a gift. Olivia is a gift. The fact that we get to have both in our family is an incredible blessing. To God be the glory, great things He hath done!

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Jordyn came in with a bang and brought a whirlwind with her, but one that has taught us a deeper trust, a deeper surrender, and a deeper love.

She was born with a congenital heart defect, which she had surgery for this past September. She was also born with Down syndrome.

When we first heard the news we couldn’t help but to have all sorts of fears about what this would mean. In Kelly’s words “I’m ashamed to say I was worried, about how our ‘not so perfect child and family’ would be perceived.” But you see, she IS perfect.

Jordyn is “fearfully and wonderfully made” by my God, who doesn’t make mistakes! She was knit in my womb, perfectly in the image of God for a unique purpose.

Yes, this may be different than we expected, but we are so so in love with our little warrior.” Jordyn lights up every room she enters and has a contagious smile, which she has spread to every doctor, nurse, tech, therapist or anyone else she has met.

Our daughter Eden is a pure joy! She has overcome so much in her short lifetime so far. If there is one thing I wish people could know about her, it’s how incredibly strong she is!

When I say strong, I mean physically and spiritually. Eden possess a strength and determination like none of our other children, it can often be described as stubbornness! But I believe God created her and other children with Down syndrome this way because they have to overcome so much.

Just the simple fact that Eden, a child with Down syndrome, was born at full term is a miracle. According to Fetal Loss in Down Syndrome Pregnancies (1), 43% of pregnancies end in a miscarriage or still birth.

Before she made it out of the womb she was fighting to overcome a breech birth, PPHN, temperature regulation, low oxygen saturations, multiple heart defects, intestinal blockage, and on and on. She has so many diagnosis in her chart, I can’t even remember them all.

Eden had her first surgery at two days old! She had another surgery at 1 month of age, countless procedures and open heart surgery at 9 months of age. The CDC (2) states that 5% of children born with Down syndrome die before one year of age. This has been evident in our support group and our hearts break for those families that have lost their child.

When you hear or see people mention “The Lucky Few” it’s referring to the families that are lucky enough to be blessed with the gift of a child with Down syndrome. When you learn and see the statistics, as parents we realize how truly lucky we really are!

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2 “Data and Statistic on Down syndrome.” Center for Disease Control and Prevention, 23 Oct. 2020, https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/birthdefects/downsyndrome/data.html. Accessed 25 Oct. 2021